Mind Over Matter- How to be a Happier Couple With Beniasha Kharas Dongre
By Nmami Life Editorial 24-Nov 2020 Reading Time: 9 Mins
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Guest of the week: Benaisha Kharas Dongre
“You make an impression when you have created a brand of yourself and the best way to create this brand is with your image.”
Benaisha Kharas is an Image Enhancer, Inspirational Speaker, and Fashion Style Expert.
She is passionate about helping her clients project an influential, charismatic, and stylish image in their personal and professional lives. She is the absolute expert in the art and science of personal style and image management. In fact, she is the“go-to Image Builder” for women, young adults, corporates, and fashion houses. At IMPA (Image Management Professionals Association), Benaisha is the only youngest Senior Image consultant to facilitate expert classes across India. Fashion Magnet Anita Dongre highly endorses Benaisha’s expertise and has got her entire sales staff sell fashion and luxury, ‘The Benaisha Way’.
She is India’s youngest internationally certified Image Consultant since 2012, Benaisha has inspired and trained more than 2000 people to be Style, Image, and Fashion Conscious.
She has provided personal consulting to more than 250 HNI clients to present themselves with more poise and polish. Being dyslexic, yet incredibly popular in the media; Benaisha does not let her obstacles come in the way of her dreams. At the tender age of 10 when her teachers told her to go to a special school, she chose to become her own hero and fight for her dreams. She graduated with double majors in sociology and entrepreneurship. After receiving a standing ovation for her TedxTalk, she again inspired thousands at ‘Kaggaz’, a forum for the youth and shared her vision of India’s Young Image. Education Times invited Benaisha to speak and motivate their audience on image and career. Gulf Times has appreciated her work done with Qatar Airways and Indian Women’s Association of Doha. Benaisha also made her presence felt on India’s first image management TV show ‘Image Banani Hein’ on Zoom TV.
Benaisha helps her clients on colour, style, wardrobe editing, personal shopping and dressing for those tricky events like weddings, interviews and dating. She also advises fashion houses on creating delightful customer experiences, artistically sell fashion and luxury, and effortlessly convert walk-ins into shoppers. Corporate Clients like BMW, Qatar Airways, Deloitte, Jeena & Co, and many more count on Benaisha for transforming their executives to be their Brand Ambassadors with strong communication, personal image and influence skills. She is deeply interested in working with differently-abled children to inspire them to lead meaningful lives. She has also helped children who suffer from attention deficit disorder, hyperactivity, and down syndrome to regain their confidence and enhance their self-image.
Benaisha, an avid lover of books, travel, and fashion, lives in Mumbai, India.
Excerpts from the Session
You can also watch the entire session video here:
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CH7yZDbnZpi/?igshid=uiowp1nf1qnw
But, for those who like to read or keep a note of the expert’s opinion, we bring the entire excerpt of the session so that you don’t miss out on anything. Here are the points that were covered in the live session:
Steps to be a happier couple
Myth: People often feel that once you are in a committed relationship or in a marriage; you no longer need to nurture it. It is self-sufficient.
Fact: You need to nurture it a lot more and sustain it for a good long time.
There are 5 important aspects to be a happier couple always.
- Spending time with each other.
- Decide together.
- Don’t forget to laugh.
- Being honest with each other.
- Appreciate each other.
For a happy and healthy relationship, it is must that you dedicate some part of your routine to your better half. Going on dates with them or watching movies or shows with them might prove to be a happy moment for you.
This creates a sense of respect and involvement in each other’s minds. Whenever you ask someone for opinions and ideas, you create a great impact on them. They feel respected, they feel considered and ultimately happy. You become more adorable when you do so. You gain their trust and anticipation.
Facing life with a smile on your face and having time for each other, making the best of each moment together, having something to laugh at about each other help you strengthen your relationship to a greater level.
It will help you understand each other, and you may lead to being more empathetic in nature. After all, when you are in a relationship, you need to be like an open book where you could be honestly speaking about your choices, your tastes, your feelings, your expectations and everything. When you are honest with each other you can progress with your relationship in a better way.
When you acknowledge and appreciate each other’s efforts it shows that you believe in each other and you know the efforts that are being put into making this relationship successful. Even appreciating the smallest things like you made a nice dish, thank you for making something different for dinner today, thank you for taking the family out for lunch, thank you for dropping the kid to school, etc will also work-out.
In the end, there doesn’t have to be anyone who understands you. There has to be just someone who wants to.
When you take efforts to understand and appreciate each other, magic happens.
Over to you
Being together with a person you love should soothe your heart and your mind. In order to be happy in a relationship, these are a few steps that are essential. Work out around these for becoming a better version of one-another, one-another.